You cannot hold onto someone who is hurting you, you deserve so much better, you deserve to be happy. Never settle for less than you deserve. There's a lot of boys that are lucky enough to have a good faithful girl but they take that for granted and are too blind to see what's right in front of them. Notice i said "boys" not men. You may feel like you do so much for someone and they just don't do the same for you in return. It hurts to feel unappreciated or unimportant. But when you feel that way you should let him know and if he doesn't respond or try to make a change then that's when you need to leave. Never let a guy think that you won't leave him because he'll just keep doing the same things, thinking that you will stay no matter what because of the love you have for him. But they say if you really love something set it free, right? That's what you have to do, and it won't be easy, but you can do it. If someone is causing you more pain than happiness lately or you feel like you deserve more, then it's time to move on! This can be an excruciating process so make sure you have a support system around you like friends and family. It's going to be difficult deleting him from your mind at first so start with deleting all the pictures you have with him or pictures that remind you of him. Second, delete his number. If he texts you try not to respond, any communication with him might cause you to second guess your decision on leaving when you know he doesn't deserve another chance. Do not get involved with him again unless you are sure he's willing to change, especially if you've given him multiple chances before. Third, anything that reminds you of him has to go, if you still love him then you must remember that some people can only stay in your heart, not in your life. He's hurting you and you deserve better, never become so desperate for love or desperate for someone that you settle for less than you deserve. You are worthy of love and should be treated like a queen, nothing less. As teenagers we are just in love with the idea of love so we'll settle for anything which is why you see girls putting up with their boyfriends treating them badly, because they believe it's "love". We have so much time to find the right person. Seriously, we have our whole lives ahead of us. Yes, you are going to miss the person who hurt you, even though you know he's bad for you, that's just how it works. Our mind's tell us one thing and our hearts tell us another and it can be difficult to make a decision. But, sooner or later you will find someone, and when the guy who hurt you sees you being happy with him, he's going to regret not treating you right. Someone else will do the things he never did. One day this will all be worth it and things will fall together and finally make sense. Someone will enter your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. Just be patient and keep your head held high, remember that you deserve the best, nothing less. Let go of what's hurting you.
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